20 Questions You Need to ask About Your Child's Cancer Treatment

Monday, 23 May 2011 Written by  Kate Booth

Tons of Stuff To-Do!When your child’s treatment team gives you information about your child’s cancer, you may not remember everything. Considering the circumstance, this is normal. There is a lot of information and your emotions are going to be getting the best of you. You may want to write, tape record or ask a friend or family member to help you figure out the best way for you to retain all of the information. This will help you to be an effective partner with your child’s treatment team.  Following are some questions that you will want to know the answers to:






The Diagnosis

What kind of cancer does my child have?
What is the stage, or extent of the disease?
Will any more tests be needed? Will they be painful? How often will they be done?

About Treatment Choices: Before the Treatment

What are the treatment choices? Which do you recommend for my child and why?
Would a clinical trial be right for my child? Why?
Have you treated other children with the type of cancer?  How many?
What are the chances that the treatment will work?
Where is the best place for my child to receive the treatment?
Are there specialist trained in pediatric oncology?
Can my child have some or all of the treatments done on our home town?

About the Treatment Itself: What to Expect

How long will the treatment last?
What will be the treatment schedule?
Whom should we ask about the details of financial matters?
Will the treatment disrupt my child’s school schedule?

About Side Effects: What to Expect

What possible side effects of the treatment can occur, both right away and later?
What can be done to help when and if side effects occur?

About the Treatment Location

How long will my child be in the hospital?
Can any treatment be done at home?  Will we need any special equipment?
Does the hospital have a place where I can stay overnight during my child’s treatment?

About School and Other Activities

Is there a child-life specialist (a professional who is responsible for making the hospital and treatment experience less scary for the child) to plan play therapy, schoolwork and other activities?
When can my child go back to school?
Are there certain diseases my child cannot be around? Should I have my child and his or her siblings immunized again any diseases?

Again, once your child has been diagnosed an emotional rollercoaster is set in motion. Having these cancer treatment questions to refer to, will make it a little less confusing for you and your child. These questions are not only critical, but will also allow you and your child to work more closely with the doctors and the treatments teams.

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